Dr. Rhoberta Shaler
As a relationship consultant, mediator, speaker and author, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor, provides urgent and ongoing care for relationships in crisis. Her mission is to help people stop tolerating abuse. Even the United States Marines have sought her help. Dr. Shaler focuses on helping the partners, exes, and adult children of the relentlessly difficult people she calls “Hijackals®.” She offers strategies for dealing with the constant uncertainty and jaw-dropping behaviors of toxic people. Author of sixteen books including Escaping the Hijackal Trap and Stop! That’s Crazy-Making! How to Stop Playing the Passive-Aggressive Game, she is the host of the weekly Relationship Help Show.
Some of the things we talked about:
- We must be self reflective enough to draw breath and take up space
- When we blurt, we hurt
- People don’t grow when we allow them to get away with things
- We can say no to triangulating
- Be clear. “This is how I feel, and this is how I would like to feel”
- Treat children with significance
- Our brains continue growing until we reach age 25
- “This is what I think, feel, want, need” without saying ‘you’
- You have the right to feel
- Feelings are not facts, they don’t need to be fixed
- Observe, don’t absorb
- And much more!
Website URL: ForRelationshipHelp.com
Twitter Handle: RhobertaShaler
Facebook Page: RelationshipHelpDoctor
LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/RhobertaShale
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